Separated and looking for the woman that can actually fit into my life,lifestyle and be able too fully express her desires and needs with me (sexual or not) so a true connection can develop. I am an open, continually trusting, honest per that has many aquaintances and some very special friends. Please note this does not mean they are sexual friends. I am not into multiple fwb's at the same time. Though it may take a while to make a very good friend, they usually become life long friends and will always have my love and loyalty. I'm a very sexual man, full of life, with a very high libido on a quest to make up for years of a sexless marraige. I'm truly fun loving (cheerful and a smiling type man), easy going, mild mannered needing lots of laughter in my life. I'm very big on hygiene. I'm told I'm attractive, having all my blonde white longish hair and teeth. LoL Again, I have a high libido. Part of that is being very oral giving. I'm sure all the ladies have heard this before but I truly am being honest. I always want to be down there fully servicing, even after completely releasing inside. I will take my time, however long is needed to arouse and bring you to a wonderful climax if not many. I've had experience in many areas of sexuality, many of which I love, and though some milder parts of bdsm and D/s have been involved at some points in my life, it is not a lifestyle I am in and I am definitely not into giving or receiving pain. I need never ending sensual kissing in my life. I find it as erotic as giving oral. I have been told I am an excellent kisser. Forgive the boast! Let's be honest, I want to be fully satisfied orally as well. As often as you might wish! Possibly as often as I would want to give it to you. I have never really had the perfect BJ. I am uncircumcised still wanting to find a woman that can really appreciate it and satisfy me the way I wish it to be. I have a definite kinky streak (I'm far from vanilla) for more "interesting" times with my partner and I might be looking for a woman that is bi or at least bi curious. Not really sure exactly, but I'd like to at least discuss it. I have thoughts of wanting 3-some and possibly 4-some couple experience on occasion and would like to be able to at least discuss it without feeling guilty. However, I don't want to make it a focus of our life. I like porn on occasion, hoping my partner will actually enjoy it with me. I'm tired of hiding my collection or making excuses for looking. I'd like a partner that will enjoy it with me and look at web-sites as well. I'm a hard worker and considered successful in the business world. Though outwardly I can be businesslike (more a casual dresser), behind closed doors I am totally imaginative. I consider myself exciting and again even quite kinky with the right woman. I have experience in very a broad range of toys ands activities. Just ask. I love travelling, love the water (hope you like boating) and love history to name a few. I'm considered intelligent able to talk well about almost any subject. I am a romantic and a very passionate man. I am a very loving man, love kissing, cuddling, touching and holding hands to an extreme. I'm active and energetic but enjoy relaxing and watching a movie with my arms around my loved one. I am the normal guy you see outwardly but a deep passion for sex behind closed doors. You won't find anyone more sexual and imaginative than me. Possibly as, but definitely not more. Please take time to know me and don't come to quick conclusions. There are many facets to my perality, some instantly recognizable and some you will find over time. Can't hurt to at least meet for a coffee.

My Ideal Person You see me as a whole person and can relate to me on many levels not just sexually. Must have a zest for life, passionate, loving, caring, love animals, and be a true fun loving vixen in the bedroom. Must be into giving oral to me as often as I want to give it to you. You can appreciate that I am often a complex man, having many interests and yet understands my high libido and my wanting to play "all" the time. I would like to find that partner for the rest of my life but I want it filled with wonderful times, wonderful memories of travel, music and lots and lots of sex. You should also have a deep desire for varied non vanilla activities.

A note about NSA FWB:

I'm looking for that long term partner. It it seems to me that I may have to play the field a little to find that person so I will not pass up an opportunity to have fun with someone that I actually connect with. If that person turns into my last LTR (finally) my looking will end. Period! I'm not into multiple partners at the same time (unless it's part of that "in the moment" fun) so I expect a FWB to be just that, a friend. I hope you understand this. I really am not interested in bed hopping.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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