I've lost my sex drive and am trying to do something special for my husband, I still want him to have fun. We've been going to counselling and we have been diagnosed as having a desire discrepancy, not unsurprising given than I'm asexual. I thought I'd try to organise for someone to give him what he needs. We've talked about him doing it but he just hasn't, and I know he finds our current lives frustrating with the lack of intimacy. xx Please get in touch.

My Ideal Person The ideal woman would be easy going, fun and adventurous. A not too serious approach and someone happy to take things slowly initially as this will be a new experience. Looking for a lovely lady. Someone our age or younger that takes pride in their appearance and cares for themself and others.