Currently we are hoping to find a few very select singles, couples, etc. to play with once everyone has communicated and feels comfortable and ready for fun! We are not going to rush into bed, so if that's what you're looking for please look elsewhere. We have been selectively swinging for about 10 years now, but we are very careful about who we play with so that has not resulted in double digits worth of people. We much prefer, and have enjoyed, making friendships out of those we play with, so that we all have a good time in a trusting and open way. We have done a lot of learning about what we like and what we don't like, what we will and will not do. Curious? Feel free to share scenarios and we'll be happy to give our opinions. :) We enjoy hot-tubing, teasing, watching movies, toys, adult games, a variety of positions, etc. The biggest thing to know and respect is that we are not cheaters, we will only play alone or separate rarely and only with one another's knowledge and consent. We are a couple and our relationship and family comes first. We prefer if we are going to select a single to play with that the per be comfortable with both of us, even if only playing with one of us. This is extracurricular for us, so no drama, games, or emotions involved. [B]Me:[/B] I am 31yo, 5'7", and 145. Blonde/blue eyes. I take good care of myself. I am shy and slow to warm up around people I just meet, but once I know you I am funny, sometimes loud, and great fun to be around. I love to be massaged, lightly spanked, and most often I respond well to direction (and every once in a while I like to do the directing). I like toys, hot showers, being kissed, touched and my nipples played with. I prefer guys that are circumcised, shave or at least trim their playground. I am serious about my career and family and insists on 100% discretion. I love spontaneity, it's very exciting for me to be surprised by someone who is in the mood to play. I do have an interest in single males joining us. But the idea of it gets very discouraging with all the "0ne liner" responses and emails. Not to mention the attitudes and over inflated egos that most have. I would someday like to fulfill my fantasy of being with multiple guys at once as well as being with a guy that is above average in endowment (girth is better than length). However for me to even consider inviting a male to join my husband and I, he must be respectful, polite, ego free and be able to carry on a mature conversation. But most of all he can not be someone who is placing multiple ads over the internet, an looking to play with whomever happens to respond. [B]Hubby:[/B] He is 40yo, 6', and 210. Brown hair/green eyes. He also takes care of himself physically. He can be quite talkative and will be best friends with you within 30 minutes, he easily puts others at ease. He is turned on by sexy attire, lingerie, porn, adult toys and a woman who is open with her sexual wants and desires. He never discriminates based on a woman's choice of grooming nor does he really have a preference. He is an ass man and enjoys women of all ages. He is especially turned on by flirtatious women that like to secretly touch, taught and tease in public or when no one is looking. He also has an above average sexual attraction toward women that are pregnant. And he REALLY ENJOYS going down on a woman. He has several fantasies that include being the third party to a couple, A sexual gift for a guy's wife or meeting a woman for oral exchange.

My Ideal Person We ultimately want to find playmates who we can get to know well so that we can all play together, or have the option to play individually as well (with the other person's knowledge, and often with a camera to share pictures with the absent party). We got into this together, to see one another enjoy themselves and fulfill desires, urges and fantasies. Cleanliness, protection, and discretion are must. We both would like to find likeminded people to try new things with, or to re-do things we've really enjoyed in the past. Whether that involves an individual, couple, or group. We are both very open minded and willing to try new things. Sometimes the taboo or kink of the sexual play can be very arousing. So don't be shy to share, as we won't judge. Mostly we are wanting to get to know you or both of you equally. Find out what you would like sexually and non-sexually, what you would not like, etc. to see if there's a chance for some in-person fun.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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