If you contact me and solicit me to your pay website or ask for money in any way you will be blocked...Im too smart to fall for that B.S. Looking to have fun first, then well see where we go. Going to bed with someone should be lighthearted and fun coupled with a few intense moments followed by either quiet bliss or a relaxing enjoyable chat about different things while snuggling...everyone is awkward at sex, laughing about it makes it better. I adore that 1st time youre with someone new...the anticipation, the sounds, the heat from each others bodies filling the room. The 1st time you feel a new partners touch, the look on their face with eyes half glazed over in excitement. Slowly undressing each other, careful not to rush. Feeling bare flesh against flesh as you embrace each other. The short peck on the lips followed immediately by a longer kiss, tongues dancing in a ritual dance. Hands moving up and down each others bodies...to be continuedI am an educated successful man in his mid40s who enjoys the company of other people, sports, music, and a fun night at home. While I love the social aspects of dating, conversations and activities out of the bedroom setting, I do love to fuck and talk openly about what it is we both want sexually and thats primarily why Im here, to meet likeminded women who can be open and honest with whether its a long or short term relationship. I dont B.S. and if I find you interesting I will not prolong the emails and texting like so many women here complain of men doing. Interests include a woman who know what she desires, who isnt afraid to ask for what she wants, who can have a conversation both sexual and nonsexual, and who is willing to share herself and her thoughts with me when the time is right.

My Ideal Person Foreplay is underrated and unless were pressed for time will always be a part of who I am. Im open to just about any relationship type as long as you are not married or attached.In a nutshell, what I am looking for longterm is a lady in public, my best friend in private, and someone who has a healthy sex drive for the bedroom. I would like to find someone who is straight or bisexual, open to developing a relationship as a couple and who wants to explore our passions together. Whenever we arent on the same page we have to agree to talk things through from each others perspectives and try to reach a compromise so we can move forward and not backwards. For me its not whether you are thin or curvy but how you carry and present yourself that I will find a turnon. Personality, character, and intelligence are big on my list of traits that stimulate my mind and body! I find women that are anywhere between slim with small assets to women who are average with curvy assets to be a great turnon.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Just one? Ok, how about this... <br><br>
We are meeting for the first time after e-mailing on A.F.F.
and we decide that a bar in the lobby of a nice hotel in town
would be the perfect place to break the ice. I arrive a few
minutes ahead of you so that I can take in your form as you
come through the door and walk towards me. <br><br>
You are dressed in a nice skirt and button up blouse with
nice stockings and garter belts that peek out from underneath
the hemline when you move. You haven't even made it
all the way to me and I can feel my cock getting extremely
hard in my jeans. <br><br>
As you arrive at the booth I stand up and reach out to pull
you into a hug. I feel your chest heaving in and out as your
breath has quickened from the anticipation of what might
happen that night. During our brief hug I feel your hand
slip down between us and lightly stroke my cock to make sure
you're having the right effect on me. <br><br>
We pull away and I help you sit down next to me at our booth
with our bodies grazing against one another as we adjust
ourselves. I ask you for your drink preference and make
arrangements for it to be delivered to the booth. <br><br>
We make small talk about our time on A.F.F., our jobs, and
any other trivial matters that come up. After we finish
our first drink I lean over and ask you if everything meets
your approval and should I go and arrange to get us a room
for the night. I am already grinning because I know what
your answer is going to be but I let you tell me anyway. Afterwards,
I rise from the booth and head to the lobby to secure a nice
room with a king size bed and possibly a couch if they have
one since we may get tired of one piece of furniture to play
on. <br><br>
As I come back you stand up and take my hand practically dragging
me towards the elevators. When the elevator door closes
we embrace and share a deep passionate kiss while we ascend
to our reserved sex chamber. Once there we will finally
perform as many of the sexual acts we discussed on the phone
as time and energy allow. <br><br>
Arriving at our room I open the door and we walk in together
making sure to hang the "Do Not Disturb" sign
on the door. <br><br>
Our first naked act together (after making sure the room
temperature, bed, and lighting are to our liking) is the
one where you lay back on the bed and begin to masturbate
yourself for me while I sit in the shadows of the room stroking
my cock. You use your fingers and the vibrator you brought
to manipulate your pussy until you are soaking wet and moaning
loudly. <br><br>
It's at that moment I hear you call out to me, asking
me to bring my cock over to you so that you can suck on it while
you masturbate. I oblige you willingly and climb up on the
bed and partially straddle your upper body so that I can
lower my cock into your mouth and throat. <br><br>
I can feel you breathing heavier now and I know that it won't
be long before you explode in orgasm. I too am getting near
to releasing my load. <br><br>
I wait, as patiently as I can, for you to start shaking and
convulsing as you cum for me. I pull my cock out of your mouth
so that you can gasp for air but I continue stoking it to keep
it ready for you. <br><br>
Just as you are coming down you tell me to put my cock back
into your mouth where you suck me to completion, never removing
your mouth as I pump a large load of cum down your throat.
<br><br>
I pull out of your mouth and lean down to kiss you so we can
mark the first of many orgasms for both of us that night.
<br><br>
You'll have to e-mail me for part II...hahaha... ;)...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, Open for discussion

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Lauren Graham (great example of the hot girl-next-door
type)....but other than that if I were going to fantasize
about a celebrity it would only be the women who seem down-to-earth
and friendly...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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