A lot of people will try to impress you with lines, stats about their physique, and a lot of would-be suave bs... And on that note, I'll start off by saying that I'm 5'8 and about 170 pounds ,i consider my self a sharp dresser with a edge . In all seriousness though, I'm looking for a real connection with a girl who knows who she is, what she wants, and isn't interested in head games. I'm all about honesty and sincerity, and you will never find someone more dependable and kind than I am. I appreciate the little things most people don't seem to and I have a cartoon-like imagination and sense of humor that seems to get me through. I love music, art, and anything that makes me feel alive. Music especially is a big passion of mine. I'm 38, I work full-time and love to have fun. As a person I'm kind of a mix between an analytical cynic and hopeless romantic. Basically, I'm a big softy with a sarcastic exterior. Fast to make a quip, I miss having someone to cuddle with spend time with. I am very Sweet, Kind, Caring, Affectionate. Just a Cuddly Teddy Bear. I am just tired of being alone I have been single for over a year now and ready to find Ms. Right. There is lots more to tell. If any of this sounds interesting or you would like to know more please feel free to email me.

My Ideal Person WOW all i can say is just be real, smart, sure about her self and what she really wants and with goals. I am looking for a long term relationship. NO HEAD GAMES PLEASE!!!!
Some of the thing's i have learn in my life time (So far)
31 ways to make a girl smile (:

1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment … even if its ust for a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her
6. Don’t go hang out with your ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9. Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of your t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with your cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its’n simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time
31. If u care about her…SHOW her!