I am looking for a friendly, communicative man within a reaable distance and age of myself for an ongoing adult relationship or affair, not simply a one-off night of fun with no further contact as this is not my style nor preference. Chemistry is very important so I would like to get to know any prospective lover via chat, messaging or email before arranging a coffee date because I like to feel that you are genuinely attracted to me and interested in taking things further in our own time as our friendship develops naturally. I enjoy attentive male company for drinks, meals out etc and I am often described as pretty, bubbly, fun and talkative; I also enjoy swimming, badminton, going to the gym and keeping fit in general although. I can assure you that I still have curves in all the right places! A mature lady like myself knows exactly what she wants and has no time for men who seek a quick "wham bam thank-you mam" nor coarse messages of a sexual nature, penis pics or anything less than I would expect from a genuine man seriously wanting to see me. So, now that you have read my profile, why not introduce yourself and say that all important first hello...