2021: looking for vaxxed men to join me and my Dom as thirds for mmf. My Dom negotiates play, photos, etc on my behalf and can be reached at Duluthtog. Generally, seeking people who are interesting to talk to and interesting in bed. Looking for new experiences to explore my edges, boundaries and desires. I keep the same name across platforms. I'm much more likely to respond to a message that tells me: - what you like, what you want, what you look like - whether you're in my geographic area (I'm busy and traveling is not realistic) - how you fill your days - you can carry a conversation that's not just about sex. About me: Early bird. Feminist. Sub. Liberalish/socialistish. Ph.D. Queer. Shortish and curvy. Always 5 minutes late. Always busy but can usually find time for what interests me. Love learning, terrible sci-fi, swimming, being outside. Just learned to snowboard, started 13.1 hike /runs, and picking up rollerblading. Sucker for people who intrigue me and can carry a conversation, and guys who can take sexy pics that aren't of their cocks. Hard limits I'm aware of now: , animals and cheating. Soft limits: tobacco use, marks visible outside clothes.