I would REALLY like to find some out and about GAY friends that would also be interested in cultivating some 'normal' social activities with my husband and me: Activities like cookouts on the grill, seeing a movie, hiking a mountain, gym workouts, board games, having drinks, sharing a buzz, lounging in the hot-tub...whatever the hell good friends decide to do. Especially during holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, etc, I miss having special guys in my life. (If you're asking, "Where did they all go?" I'll tell ya...they all died over the last 10 years, and all of them were years younger than me and hubby. :-( If we can't be real friends, then I'm open to a FWB, or even an anonymous quickie. [B]I do understand 'discrete' [/B]and I play nice...usually. Some guys say I like rough sex...maybe, but I think sweaty sex is more accurate. I'm into MUTUAL physical play: Massage, oral, 69, bed wrestling, passionate kissing, skin on skin, body exploration, ass play. Side guy mostly - not a huge fan of anal, butt never say never. Oil wrestling sounds hot, slipping and sliding...followed by a hot shower. GWM, active-healthy-horny 72 <--and proud of it, 6', 220#, 7" cut, DDF, vaxed, boosted and married to my partner of 30 years. (He's disabled, knows I am seeking and has encouraged me to find some connections, so here I am.)

My Ideal Person ...a casual 'jeans and t-shirt guy' with a schedule flexible enough to be free one or two days a week/month...or even late at night after 10 pm. Always hopeful a good friendship might develop.

Let's find a reason to laugh together. If we need to meet in advance and see where it goes, I'm game.