I am an artsy, professional geeky guy slowly crawling up past my mid 50's and want to explore all those odd connections I've felt and thought about over the years. I am 5'7", kinda cubicle shaped but can hike, bike and sail. I'm good for up to 1 pushup at a time. :) Kinda hairy but I shave the important bits (and love shaving others by the way). I am attached but my wife sometimes includes herself but mostly I am exploring on my own with her understanding. I am open to anything but do not like anger, agression and most absolutes. I love talking, laughing, music, and getting 2 - 7 people under a blanket and playing iggly piggly. So. Let's do something.

My Ideal Person Willing to try and see.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Open to explore even if shy

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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