Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are outgoing, active, energetic and fun. We enjoy a healthy lifestyle. We are not much into the bar scene,we would prefer a sunset on the beach, a private BBQ or dinner with friends. In the bedroom, we tend to enjoy straightforward, kinky, and experimental sex. We love sex, but developing friendships, and lasting relationships are also important. Good conversation with intelligent people is enjoyable to us. We enjoy D/s in addition to everything else, but it is not a requirement for enjoyment.