Looking for a talented lover, not a revolving door of cocks. Consider it a job interview. Be a gentleman be humorous be kind, be honest and be over 40 If you are married I will want a note from home..... I am a middle aged lady (not a dirty girl or slut or playmate) I am intelligent, flawed, imperfect, decent and worldly. I don't wear the giddy up bedroom costumes. I wear jeans and the odd skirt or dress. I dont ski or rock'climb or fish or hunt or ride motorcycles. I have no ink...I am as normal and middle class as the rest of this world (or most of it) Dating is fine, not wanting a room mate or husband but certainly an intimate friend and lover.

My Ideal Person A man with confidence and who has seen some of the world. Interesting and passionate. Willing to share his time with me. SINGLE, that means unattached , no girlfriend no common law wife, no poly lover. No MILF hunters. To be clear, sex is easy to find, swing a cat and its there.....great friendships are rare....Be that unique person with that unique combination and we may find a chance to enjoy life for a while....Kindness, caring, generosity of yourself is what counts, not the length of your penis or the balance of your RRSP.

I hope you are out there, I am here, message me with your thoughts.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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