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why and why not 12/9/2005
im not sure what the big deal is safe sex and bareback feel
about the same and i have done both and i do know how great
it feels as a guy to be able to shoot a load or more into a nice
virgin pussy but at the same time its not hard to respect
a womans wishes and use protection. i dont know why guys
do stuff like make the condum break or say htey have it on
then take it off. i just dont get ...
1 Comments, 307 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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Condom or No Condom? 12/7/2005
I use to always use a condom, I didnt wanna chance gettin
pregnant, but lately when I was with this one guy, out of
maybe 30 times having sex, we used a condom once or twice.
I know its not a very smart thing to do, after im not on birth
control. Does anyone have the same fear of getting pregnant
but hate using condoms like I do?
2 Comments, 512 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score
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Why condoms???? 12/2/2005
As a swinging couple I have to ask a seemingly stupid question?
Why condoms? First of all you must trust, to a certain degree,
the people you are swinging with. And if you engage in oral
sex, as many of us do, you probably do it without a condom.
So if a guy receives oral sex without the condom and then
another guy receives oral sex from the same female it seems
like those two guys just had ...
1 Comments, 496 Views,
15 Votes
,2.37 Score
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How do you perform safe oral sex? 12/1/2005
Okay, this is really something that bothered me for a while.
Men can wear condoms while women perform oral sex on them
but I am not aware of any protection that works if men perform
oral sex on women.
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What is everyone's thought on this? I mean, I love to
perform oral sex on my partners but I also want to be safe,
of course.
0 Comments, 381 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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Do you find a lot of people that are willing? 11/25/2005
I am all for Safe Sex. There is so much out there that can't
be just washed off. Do you find the guys to be willing to have
a condom on? If only we could find someone we knew was realy
D/D free. I like it better all natural but don't want
to get anything eather.
1 Comments, 260 Views,
19 Votes
,4.44 Score
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What To Buy? 11/25/2005
So I was thinking, since I want too much out of guys (like
want one to be around 3 days out of seven) I was thinking that
why not go get the next best thing . . .
A vibrator or dildo.
But I want to know more about them, what is what. Yes I have
seen both, but what really works better? I have never had
sex so if I get a dildo will it “pop my cherry, ” for say? ...
4 Comments, 557 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Mood killer 11/24/2005
Is it a romance killer to the ladies when you are getting
ready for intimacy and the man takes time out to put on a condom?
2 Comments, 187 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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how safe is oral? 11/24/2005
How safe is it to give or recieve oral unprotected? Is it
riskier for a man or woman to give?, and is it riskier for
a man or woman to recieve? I'm not real sure...maybe
someone out there can enlighten me. I know one thing, I would
almost rather get a blowjob from a talented woman than to
stick it in her. I love to feel her warm wet mouth and her toungue
swirling around my shaft. I've ...
2 Comments, 607 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Oral sex safety 11/24/2005
How is everyone handling the issue of safe sex when performing
oral sex?
1 Comments, 446 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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is there such a thing 11/22/2005
Is there such a thing as safe sex. Yes self sex is the only
safe sex. Sure you can use condoms to prevent birth but as
far as germs or worse no. Viruses and germs are carried so
many ways contact, inhalation, even body fluids like saliva
and sweat. doesn't have to be blood or semen or vagina
secretions. unless you wrap your entire body in latex ,
naked gun type*LOL*, then no there is no ...
0 Comments, 93 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Would you join a group... 11/18/2005
Dear Party Friendfinder members;
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV negative? ...
2 Comments, 143 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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Vegan Condoms 11/14/2005
My wife and I are both vegan (we don't eat or use animal
products), for a variety of reasons that we care deeply
about, so please don't use this as an opertunity to
flame our lifestyle. It might come as a supprise to some
that condoms are not vegan, they cantain the protine derived
from cows milk called casine. Now having a product that
in part comes out of the breast of cow on my penis, in ...
0 Comments, 214 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Cuckold husbands, safe or not? 11/13/2005
Men what has been your experience with cuckold husbands?
I've seen a number of profiles where women or couples
are asking for men to have sex with the women while the husband
is watching, participating or just around. I'm not
to sure about something like this, as I don't want some
husband going ape shit on me while I was doing his woman.
What's the scoop?
1 Comments, 707 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Why do porno stars fuck with condom 11/13/2005
Why do porno stars fuck with condom then take it off to cum
in mouth?
If it to prevent STD transfer surley infection can be passed
orally.
1 Comments, 390 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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How to avoid messy anal sex-laxatives 11/12/2005
I know from experience that things can get very messy down
there if the situation is not right. On the other hand, on
some days everything can be clean as a whistle.
What kinds of foods should be eaten to ensure all poo has
exited the back door?
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I havent tried any fibre supplements but was thinking they
could work. What about laxatives. Does anyone know any
types ...
1 Comments, 341 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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std? 11/10/2005
How do you ask someone if they have an STD without hurting
their feelings?
2 Comments, 224 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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STD's: choices, decisions, actions and consequences.... 11/6/2005
The fear of catching an STD shouldn't take away the
pleasure that sex brings. We should however, do ourselves
and others a great service by shedding the ignorance and
staying safe!
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I have Herpes: AKA, Genital Herpes, Herpes simplex virus
type 2, HSV2, HSVII, below the waist herpes, cold sores
on dick & etc. Fortunately that's all I have and
a very mild case too (compared to ...
0 Comments, 810 Views,
19 Votes
,6.16 Score
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People may not know 11/4/2005
Since people may not know they have an STD safer sex is always
the answer. What they don't know might kill you. No
orgasm is worth my life.
1 Comments, 141 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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safe sex doesnt feel the same does it? 10/28/2005
It may have the feeling of 'you're not gonna get
crabs' but sticking your dick in a balloon, and then
fucking really doesnt feel anywhere near as good as flesh
on flesh
2 Comments, 333 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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It's more than just condoms 10/27/2005
We've been to a few different swinger clubs and resorts,
and we're still amazed at the ignorance some people
show.
We were very happy at one place that really pushed safe sex
- those that complain are either asked to leave or not invited
back.
At another location, it was frowned upon - with the answer
that "people in the lifestyle don't have problems".
They even complained about ...
1 Comments, 633 Views,
26 Votes
,6.05 Score
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Why not a group for those willing to prove they are disease free? 10/27/2005
Has anyone on this site ever thought of starting a group
for people who are will to go tegether on first dates for
free and anonymous HIV (and other STDs')testing?
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If you know someone of the oppostie sex that is very physicaly
attractive but you also know that they are HIV positive;
would you "seriously" have anything to do with
them? Of course you wouldn't.
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So ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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STDs Prevention? 10/26/2005
What is the posibility of even knowing you have contracted
STDs because their incubation period is pretty long? Is
there a sure way to confirm that you have contracted it and
is a condom really protective enough to prevent you from
contracting STDS? Are there others prevention measures?
1 Comments, 569 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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You think you know someone.... 10/12/2005
You can meet someone that you think is fit and cool and get
one really well. Everything goes well and you end up shagging,
you always use condoms, but after you have split up she tells
you that you still need to go to the docs because she has a
disease that can be passed from her pussy lips to the very
base of your penis.
The motto is this, go to the doctors after you split from
someone ...
0 Comments, 382 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Safe Ass Licking 10/8/2005
What are the do's and don't of safe ass licking?
Probably starts with a shower, but then what?
3 Comments, 629 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Wrap it 10/1/2005
If your gonna do it, Wrap it up!!! That's the only way
to protect yourself. Especially, in a lifestyle like this.
It only takes one person to have something before a whole
lot of people can get it if you don't. It's not about
birth control. It's about protecting yourself and
the ones you love.
2 Comments, 244 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score
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curious to see what the percentage of people out there are saf. 9/25/2005
well i was curious about how many peopl out there use condoms
or some bitrth control... i hope its a big one , people we
have got to be safe out there.... let me know...
3 Comments, 298 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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How to get max satisfaction safe sex with multiple partners? 9/24/2005
Can anyone tell me how to have sex with muiltiple partners
and at the same time it is safe?
0 Comments, 35 Views,
44 Votes
,7.39 Score
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Herpes protection 9/13/2005
I know that condoms can protect against most STDs like gonnorhea
or syphilis, but what about herpes or HPV(genital warts),
which spread by mere contact without any exchange of body
fluid? If someone has these things in their genital area,
they can spread it to you even if you wear a condom. Is there
any way(other than abstinence) to protect against this?
Is there some way you can tell if ...
1 Comments, 421 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Why do some people not like safe sex? 9/12/2005
Me and my husband are into the swinging lifestyle, yet we
use protection both ways we go. We wouldn't have it
any other way. It is the safest way to be. You avoid getting
a deadly disease and you avoid getting pregnant by someone
else's husband.
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So why is it that people are so nasty and could care less about
protection from both male and female point of views?
2 Comments, 303 Views,
15 Votes
,2.37 Score
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Blood Donors and Safe Sex 9/8/2005
We have read on the advice lines before that the easiest
way to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases in
America is to be a blood donor, and that donors are given
a certificate to say they are healthy.
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Is this really what happens over there?
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This doesn't happen in the UK. Our blood transfusion
service has a policy of refusing blood donations from ...
4 Comments, 444 Views,
24 Votes
,4.61 Score
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