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DICK PICS
Posted:Feb 1, 2019 6:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 10:25 pm
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Seriously guys..

Yes, the dick pics are nice to see, however, I don't want to see one over a TOILET.. or in someone else's mouth or vagina. That doesn't turn me on.

Posting pics of you playing with others on your profile is NOT that way to get me to play with you, because if you were any good you would still be fucking them.. and if you are still fucking them, then I don't want you.

Having a face or at least a body or chest pic is a huge plus, I understand that not everyone wants their face on this site, but at least give us something else to look at other then your dick.

Tips before you post a pic...
1. Manscape that thing.. at least a trim..
2. Clean the area around where you are going to be taking the pic, I don't want to see trash or dirty laundry if you want me looking at your cock.
3. Be ALONE in the pic..
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What the hell???
Posted:Oct 27, 2013 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2019 6:12 pm
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Why do guys tell me how much they like and agree with my profile and are looking for exactly the same thing to only turn right around and let it slip that they have a play date set up for the next day, or that they are going to the red rooster with a "friend"? Oh and that they intend to continue this once we start "hooking up"

How is that looking for exactly what I have on my profile?

I completely understand the concept of a man telling a woman what they think they want to hear in an attempt to get them to fuck them. This is NOT my first rodeo... but shessh... why waste your time or more importantly.. MINE?

Because you will now NEVER get to fuck me... regardless of how much time passes and how "you have changed" since we met the first time. Unlike a lot of people on this site, I remember things, especially when they are things that would put me at risk.. My physical and sexual safety is a primary concern.

I am VERY clear on my profile about looking for monogamy in a FWB, if I wanted multiple partners then I would be looking for fuck buddies, not a FRIEND with BENEFITS... huge difference to me.. I even broke it down and used little words for the ones who might not be able to grasp the meaning of the bigger ones.

That is my vent for the night.
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Violet Wand
Posted:Sep 17, 2013 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 3:36 pm
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So I bought my very own violet wand kit this weekend, It shipped today and I will have it on Thursday... sooooo happy...

Now I just need someone non-icky to teach me how to use it properly.

Super excited...
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WOW... I was called a unicorn...
Posted:Sep 14, 2013 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 3:36 pm
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I ran into an old friend with benefits a few days ago, really nice guy. He was with his wife, he introduced us. Her comment was: "So this is the unicorn".

I had to laugh at that, I have friends who are in polyamorous relationships and a unicorn is a female or male who is accepting of the primary relationship and do not do anything that would cause friction, drama, or interfere in any way with the primary.

They had moved away because of his work and they are now back in town. They have closed their marriage due to not being able to find the elusive "unicorn" in the area they had moved and the people they had met had caused stress on their marriage so they decided to "opt out" for a while.

When being an addition to a polyamorous relationship or an addition to any kind of relationship..you have to respect any and all boundaries that have been set, be open and honest, do your part to keep the lines of communication open and flowing in all directions.

It is not difficult to be a "unicorn", the main thing to remember... you are the "additional" not the "main".

Do not try to take the position of the "main" away from the person who has it. This will do nothing but cause drama and will get you removed from the position of "additional". If you do try and by some miracle succeed, soon you will be the one loosing your new "main" status as they will either realize you are not what you seemed to be and go back to their original "main" or they will replace you with the new "additional" when that person makes a play for the seat of power, or they will just drop you all together. None of those are fun options...

So play nice, and know going in what your position is in the relationship and if it is not an acceptable position for you, then simply don't do it.

You make the decisions to take the actions that you take, so if you decide to be an addition to a any form of relationship... respect it..
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Why Bother?
Posted:Mar 10, 2013 6:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 10:25 pm
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I am a paying member.. I have a profile that I have written outlining what I am looking for.. I have added pics to my profile..

But I have to ask... why bother?

99% of the men on this site are too cheap to upgrade or they are cheating and can't charge the fee because the significant other will find out..

So if they won't/can't make the effort to see the profile why should I be hassled because I will not send them pics that are ON my profile..
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testing 1 2 3
Posted:Jan 15, 2013 6:37 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2013 2:21 pm
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just seeing who is awake
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Sarcastic Moment
Posted:Nov 18, 2012 8:24 am
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2018 9:28 pm
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Here is something... If you are able to email, then that means you can see the person's profile... that being said..

So I really enjoy getting emails from people who say they have "read" my profile, when it's quite clear from a glance that they have not.

My profile states in capital letters--- LOCALS ONLY... that means you LIVE here.. have a permanent place of residence...

Also... it states.. white or possibly hispanic.. so why do I get so many emails from Black men? I not racist... just not interested.

So I ask... What the Fuck?
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My Thoughts and Wants...
Posted:Jul 28, 2012 7:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2013 11:55 am
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I recently answered an email and it got me to thinking (and anyone who knows me, knows this is dangerous.. lol). So here goes………

I don't see any point to being on a sex site but looking for love. Common sense says you will not find it here. If you do, applause for you. However for me, I have been married, engaged and in relationships (I enjoy those things, being someone's girlfriend, fiancee, or wife) but I know I will not find that person on here.. and I am not looking for that now. Recently out of a long term relationship and DO NOT want to be in another in the foreseeable future. So emotions are completely off the table.

So I am looking for a friend, someone to hang out and do things with (cause I refuse to eat alone in a restaurant.. will not do it lol).. I don't expect that person to pay for me, I have a job. Then at some point in the "hanging out time" HOPEFULLY we will end up having sex... WWOOHHOOO Bring it on! Having knowledge of the person allows you to enjoy the “physical” aspect of the friendship even more. I am NOT interested in being a “tourist attraction”, a “hit and quit”, a “random fuck”, or a “one night stand”. If those are things YOU are looking for, then please feel free to not waste my time.

I am a very playful person, I love to laugh and tease. I am rarely serious (but I can be when I have too). I do my best to not be moody (not going to lie it does sneak in once in a while and I tend to keep my distance when that happens cause I don't like me when moody, I doubt others would either). I am very affectionate in private and public, however I am also an adult and I know that affection does NOT have to have an emotional backer. For me affection with a FWB is foreplay.... a hug, a kiss, a touch, even holding hands is a prelude of what is happening later. I do NOT see it as "awww he is holding my hand, he must really like me".

So just to recap and clarify……
1. I am looking for a FRIEND WITH BENEFITS- this means someone to hang out with and if sex happens (which 99% of the time it should, lol) all the better.

2. I am looking for monogamy. The reason for this is two-fold.
A. I am greedy plain and simple, why should you be fucking someone else when you could be fucking me.
B. Health concerns- multiple partners equal a greater risk of catching something. Even with condoms there are still diseases that can be transmitted easily and I prefer to keep my risk as small as possible. Monogamy DOES NOT mean an emotional commitment.

3. Honesty is a MUST. Why lie?? The truth will come out eventually and if you tell a fib you have to actually REMEMBER it in case it comes up again or guess what… it bites you. Yes the truth can hurt, but seriously if honesty is prevalent in the friendship then most truths will not be a surprise.

4. Hanging out--- to me this is anything from chilling on the couch watching a movie, playing cards or board games, going to the park, having drinks, going to a movie, hanging out with like-minded friends (I have a lot of platonic friends from the site that I spend time with either at a bar, doing a bbq etc) or dinner,… whatever.. it’s things friends do… again.. I have a job and don’t expect anyone to pay my way.

5. Affection--- I am a VERY affectionate person in private and in public. I love to touch and be touched.. IT DOES NOT MEAN ANYTHING except FOREPLAY…. So don’t read more into it then there is. If you even have a doubt... ask, I will answer honestly and clear the matter up right then and there versus you sitting around thinking it is something it’s not.

So…. Like I said.. it’s dangerous when I think.
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Playing hooky..... Truth or Fiction??
Posted:Jul 12, 2012 9:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2013 11:56 am
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I look at the clock, 2pm, time to make a break for it.

I pop my head into my boss's off and tell him bye and make a beeline for the front door. Into my car and away I go before anyone can stop me to fix one of their problems.

I text you that I am on my way, and you respond that you are ready and waiting. As I turn onto your street, I send you another quick note to let you know I am there. As I park you step up to my door and open it for me, pulling me into your arms as I get out of the car and kiss me hello.

Leading me into the house, you turn to me as we cross the thresh hold pulling me into your arms and kissing me again. You back me against the wall and pin my hands over my head with one hand while kissing me deeply as you lift my shirt with the other. Only breaking the kiss to get the shirt over my head. Tossing it aside you pull the bra straps down my arms, popping my breasts into view.

I can feel your cock pressing into me, hard and solid. I slide to my knees and release it from your shorts and take it into my mouth. I slide my tongue over the shaft as I swallow you into my throat. I hear you moan softly from above, "oh, Dios mío" as you run your hand thru my hair, caressing my head and holding me close as I continue to suck and lick. Looking up I meet your eyes and purr softly, cupping your balls as I slide the shorts down to the floor. You move slightly to step out of them, the shift slides you deeper into my throat and you moan again. I suck harder knowing that you have a present for me that I am going to be receiving very soon, I can feel it building in your testicles as I gently knead them in my hand, they are tightening and getting heavier as your breathing and movements become sharper and quicker. Suddenly you are shooting your hot delicious jism into my throat. Groaning I release your sack and slide my hands around to your ass, my nails digging in slightly as I hold you close so I can drain your hard cock of my yummy present.

You pull me away and drop to your knees to kiss me, releasing the hooks on my bra and removing it completely. You lower me to the floor and lay down beside me, suckling on my nipples and sliding my skirt up to reveal my very wet shaved bare pussy. You teasingly run your finger along the smooth lips, slipping it between them to caress my throbbing clit. I cry out in pleasure and you shift your weight and lay on top on me, burying your still throbbing hard cock deep inside me. Sliding in and out of my tight wet pussy, rubbing against the magic secret spot until I scream your name and climax quickly squirting. My cum runs down your thighs and drips from my ass crack onto the tile. You suckle on my breasts, continuing to fuck me. I am lost in the sensations as over and over you trigger more and more orgasms. I am incoherent with pleasure.

You pull out and turn me over, spreading my legs wide you pull a small toy from your shorts pocket and slide it into my dripping spasming pussy and turn it on, I moan in pleasure as it hums happily away. You close my legs and straddle my plump milky white ass. Slowly you penetrate my anal cavity with your hard cock, using my cum for lubrication. I groan at the dual sensation. You lean forward and gently bite my back, I arch in pleasure and cry out. You begin to build a steady rhythm of movement in my ass, causing the toy to nudge against my G-spot and my engorged clit rubs against the tile. I am crying for you to fuck me harder and harder, each thrust sending me closer and closer to another set of climaxes. Riding me thoroughly you force me to cum again and again.

My orgasms rip through me, my pussy trying to devour the humming toy, my ass clenching and releasing as I experience an anal orgasm. Grabbing onto my shoulders you rock into my ass holding me tightly as you begin to cum. Feeling your orgasms triggers a fresh round and I scream out in pleasure. You collapse on top of me as we ride out the sensations. We are both oblivious to our surroundings.

We slowly come to our senses, you kiss my cheek and shoulder and gently begin to remove your cock from my ass. Caressing my ass as you pull completely free and cuddle up to my side. You suddenly realize that I am still cumming, the happy little toy is still humming his way thru one orgasm after another. You teasingly run your hand over my back and ass, down my thighs and back up again. Each stroke causing me to moan loudly and rock on the toy.

You slowly ease my thighs apart and after you know I have came again, turn the toy off and remove it from my soaking wet pussy. I sigh in contentment and disappointment. You swat my ass cheek and call me a "Greedy Kitty".

You stand on wobbly knees and help me to my jelly legs. With your arm around my waist we turn and realize that the front door is still standing wide open, we never shut it when we came in. Too distracted by one another to realize. Sitting in the door way is a Fed-Ex package you had been waiting for, in the distance we hear a very distinctive rumble as the truck starts and he pulls away.

We start to laugh and you close the door. On weak legs we wander down the hall to shower and prepare for round two.

Now you get to decide... Truth or Fiction... >>!
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Squirting....
Posted:Jun 5, 2012 6:05 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2019 10:04 am
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So I have recently realized that I am a squirter when fucked or fingered properly.

It can be triggered almost immediately or built up to. I am able to cum multiple times over and over and over... and even have rolling orgasms, but never realized that I was able to do this. LOL

UPDATE!!!! This is actually becoming a more and more frequent thing. LOL.. who knew.. just a few short months ago I couldn't have sex without lube being involved because I was always drying out... When with anyone else since, it hasn't been an issue. Not always squirting, but definitely no lube required. Even my toys are getting in on the act and making me need to use a towel when self entertaining.. wwoohhoooo makes for a very happy kitty...
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mmm road trip to the lake.
Posted:May 29, 2012 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2018 10:54 am
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Went to Lake Mojave on Monday with a friend of mine..

I was so horny... I wiggled out of my swim suit (I was wearing it under a sundress) and started masturbating while he drove. I was caressing my breasts and tugging on my nipples as we passed car after car after semi..

My pussy was dripping wet.. i was teasing him and myself. caressing my breasts and gently rubbing my clit. his truck has a console that is very wide.. so he couldn't really reach me to get involved in the fun..

The rest of the day we rode the jet ski (which was not helping when i would hit a wave JUST RIGHT MMMM ) then the evening, up til early this morning will remain a secret between myself and .... well i am not telling..
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