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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??
Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type?? I never have been a skinny . I have been average, curvy, thick, and now I have crossed over a very small BBW. Confession I am very good with camera angles. Truth be told I am having a difficult time adapting to body. They say beauty comes in all shape and sizes. What I have learned throughout the years is the key sexiness is confidence. Yes your body is your temple however it is your mind that is your biggest sexual organ. I am seductive, sensual, erotic, and some people say I am smart too. Imagine that! I have all these qualities that has nothing to do with the size of body yet men are still find me attractive. It is other women that are the most judgemental. They will be the ones fat shame you and tell you that a man is settling be a " fat" . That we are not desirable. I understand that is their personal opinion however I wonder if other lady friends on feel like we are the ones bringing eachother down. So are questions .. Honesty is the best policy. Are you more attracted a woman by her confidence or body type? Is it the combo of both? Or are you someone loves all shapes and sizes because what makes someone beautiful is their mind? I would love hear your input. Happy Thursday ya! Have you entered current giveaway? is the link |
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
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1/16/2020 10:50 am |
I am personally more attracted to a curvy woman, but yes the personality is the biggest and most important
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I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.
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1/16/2020 10:54 am |
I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked
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1/16/2020 10:54 am |
Actually I find it's her looks and personality that comes first... And of course major points for honesty too... The body is just what she uses to move around with... A model type woman with a terrible personality doesn't do it for me. And besides... I think you have a fantastic body hon. You're a as far as I'm concerned
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BTW, love the pics.
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1/16/2020 10:56 am |
You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy.
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For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....
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For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.
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I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me. I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape. Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.
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You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
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Queen Janeane, Those are some sweet cheeks. It has always been a mixture of both mind and body. I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind. Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.
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Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!
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Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful
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Confidence gets me every time.
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I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
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I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality.
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Hello sweetheart! The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes! You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you. Butch
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Vert good sweetie Buych
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday.. Butch
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I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything. I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape. Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule" With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without
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You are super attracive.yumm
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Love your curves.
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1/16/2020 12:07 pm |
Very pretty
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I absolutely go with *confidence*. That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong." A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture. I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.
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Confidence goes a long way to me. Every body is different. If you know it a use it to your advantage. It beautiful to me. You have both.you also have a beautiful smile. Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you. Your smart and that a turn on So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough. XOXOXO Thomas
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1/16/2020 12:14 pm |
Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...
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Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.
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Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.
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1/16/2020 12:45 pm |
Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!
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None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing
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I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies
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I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self
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Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there
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For me it is mostly about confidence. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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Sexiness is in the mind for me.
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only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes
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Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.
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1/16/2020 6:58 pm |
i am a face man, if i find her face attractive nothing else matters to me. if i can not stand looking at someone it is not going to work no matter how hot her body is. ps, you have a very beautiful face!!!!
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
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You look perfect to me and it looks like you are quite confident and comfortable. Just be your self and have fun.
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What I find attractive in a woman really has nothing to do with her body or her appearance. I am far more attracted to her sweetness, playfulness and sense of humor. Life is truly magical when you have someone that treasures the opportunity to laugh with you and share in all of the joys of your day. That said, I totally adore curves and the amazing suppleness that accompanies them so I may be a bit biased. No matter how stunningly beautiful she is when you’re first attracted, when you find that special chemistry with someone the attraction grows exponentially.
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The smile is what I go for... a great smile and warm heart...
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I like big beautiful women. I honestly think you taste better! You certainly are more passionate.
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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type?? Yes. A woman who has an attractive body type and no confidence? Not attractive. A woman who has confidence yet does not take care of her body? Not attractive. A woman who's got both? Much more attractive.
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Your pics are lovely. Attitude is everything. I love a woman with confidence.
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday.. I do find it funny that someone who recently tried to fat shame a blogger out of pure jealousy has the nerve to come here and say the total opposite of how they act, another example how big of a hypocrite they are... like Tmptrzz said shame on them. Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD
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Confidence ! Confidence ! Confidence ! "It is other women that are the most judgemental." I have a couple of friends I know since our teens, whose confidence was ruined by their own mothers. Either by longterm fat-shaming, or slut-shaming. These women, who are neither fat nor sluts (in every sense of the word) never recovered, even after they married and had children of their own. So, yes, one cannot overstress enough how important it is to maintain your self-confidence, and the rest will follow.
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I am attracted to all body types. I agree with you it is not just the body, but it is the confidence and intelligence of the lady as well that makes them sexy. I think you look great in all your pics and of course certain angles do help, but there is nothing with that. Keep being yourself and use your sexy mind to find mutual friends that enjoy the same. Cheers!
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i like your pic a lot
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I quite love a confident woman. When at a swinger's club, I look at the various people there. They are of all shapes and sizes. I see how larger women rock their sexy dress and how they confidently carry themselves. I like that!
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Well, darling what can I say more then you sum it up just perfect!! Do you read my mind or??
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always interested in you
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Confidence is very sexy-attractive!
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Personally and Confidence are more important than body shape or size to me
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It is a combo of both for me! However, truth be told the confidence and the personality outweigh the physical. I have met some very sexy females in my 51 years, and that had nothing to do with their bodies. It is a woman's confidence and mind that brings it all together. I have been fortunate enough to meet a few women that would be considered BBWs, but they were some of the best fun I had and had wonderful minds. With all that being said, for me the biggest physical part is the face, eyes and beautiful, bright smiles! And you definitely have that my dear!
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Not sure you'd qualify as bbw, but most men I know, and me, prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones" so to speak. I am not terribly attracted to women who are uber skinny. Of course, personality is also key. Hot snotty people are no fun at all.
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I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.
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I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.
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1/17/2020 4:17 pm |
To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion
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1/17/2020 6:57 pm |
Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you.
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I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting. Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves. I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy. Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.
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" A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"
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I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you. SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference. Embrace the suck
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !! I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.
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I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything. I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape. Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule" With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.
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My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range. Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period. It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman! But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.
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be proud beautiful
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1/19/2020 11:47 am |
For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.
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yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman
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....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...
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I am personally more attracted to a curvy woman, but yes the personality is the biggest and most important
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I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.
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I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked
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Actually I find it's her looks and personality that comes first... And of course major points for honesty too... The body is just what she uses to move around with... A model type woman with a terrible personality doesn't do it for me. And besides... I think you have a fantastic body hon. You're a as far as I'm concerned
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BTW, love the pics.
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You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend.
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A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy.
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For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....
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Thank you. I agree beauty comes within. Happy day to you
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For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.
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I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me. I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape. Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.
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You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!
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That's been happening to me, too.
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Queen Janeane, Those are some sweet cheeks. It has always been a mixture of both mind and body. I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind. Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.
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Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!
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Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful
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Confidence gets me every time.
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I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.
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I agree inner beauty is way more important than outer beauty. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
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I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you
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Hello sweetheart! The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes! You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you. Butch
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I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything. I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape. Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule" With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without
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You are super attracive.yumm
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Love your curves.
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Very pretty
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I absolutely go with *confidence*. That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong." A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture. I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.
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Confidence goes a long way to me. Every body is different. If you know it a use it to your advantage. It beautiful to me. You have both.you also have a beautiful smile. Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you. Your smart and that a turn on So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough. XOXOXO Thomas
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Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...
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Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.
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Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.
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I do not think it is wrong to have a preference of body type. I just think it is wrong to body shame. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you
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Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!
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I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies
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Awww.. sweet talking me again. Thank you for participating Jack. Happy day to you
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Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing
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None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable.
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Vert good sweetie Buych
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Very good response! Butch
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I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self
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Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there
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I think you are absolutely correct. It is always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you
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For me it is mostly about confidence.
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Honestly I find that hard to believe. I think you are a attractive lady, but you are correct people on this site can be very superficial. Especially when you are a exhibitionist. Thank you so much for your input. Happy day to you
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Thank you. I like your blog too.
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I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old
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Sexiness is in the mind for me.
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only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes
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Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.
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You would be surprised if you knew how difficult it was for me to post a photo..lol.. II hate taking pictures..lol..Great to see you. Happy Hump day Tom
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1/23/2020 8:23 am |
Ahhh yes I have struggled with this issue too. I love all women shapes and sizes. Let me be the first of many to say women you are beautiful you are precious I love a great body I also love a confident woman. So a man that recognizes beauty knows that it's an entire package. Baby there are men on their knees waiting and wanting to admire and devour your sexy ass body a long line. Lol! I just know how I want you to feel Sexy just the way you are. Hugs and kisses!
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1/25/2020 5:33 am |
You are absolutely gorgeous, love your eyes and nipples!!!
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I just want to say I adore the new you. I love a body with curves and I love a woman is comfortable in her skin. I think we all have things we would change about ourselves , i think its normal but that doesnt mean we dont want to be who we are. I am a firm believer that "sexy" really doesnt start to come into play until at least age 35. Thats about the time we all really start to realize who we are and find comfort and confidence there. sexy is way more that body type. Sex was good in my 20s but id have to say it has been Soo much better the last 10-15 years because i know who i am now. it really does get better with age. and for the record, you're a delight.
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and if i havent said so before, i find you incredibly sexy
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i am a face man, if i find her face attractive nothing else matters to me. if i can not stand looking at someone it is not going to work no matter how hot her body is. ps, you have a very beautiful face!!!!
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Don't feed the Gremlins after midnight !!! You are Beautiful ! and Confident!!! , I'm not sure what attracts me in general as sometimes i see this shy thing over in the corner getting me all hot n bothered .. or the bold one who is the life of the night might get me wound up too ! I think its just the person and my mood at that moment , body type isn't a major factor as long as they are healthy .
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You look perfect to me and it looks like you are quite confident and comfortable. Just be your self and have fun.
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The smile is what I go for... a great smile and warm heart...
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I like big beautiful women. I honestly think you taste better! You certainly are more passionate. .I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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both confidence and body in bed
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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type?? Yes. A woman who has an attractive body type and no confidence? Not attractive. A woman who has confidence yet does not take care of her body? Not attractive. A woman who's got both? Much more attractive.
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Your pics are lovely. Attitude is everything. I love a woman with confidence.
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I completely agree with Tmptrzz, like i have always told you, you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you otherwise. I do find it funny that someone who recently tried to fat shame a blogger out of pure jealousy has the nerve to come here and say the total opposite of how they act, another example how big of a hypocrite they are... like Tmptrzz said shame on them.
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Confidence ! Confidence ! Confidence ! "It is other women that are the most judgemental." I have a couple of friends I know since our teens, whose confidence was ruined by their own mothers. Either by longterm fat-shaming, or slut-shaming. These women, who are neither fat nor sluts (in every sense of the word) never recovered, even after they married and had children of their own. So, yes, one cannot overstress enough how important it is to maintain your self-confidence, and the rest will follow.
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I want the whole package too Thank you for commenting. I also would like to thank you for accepting my friend request
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I am attracted to all body types. I agree with you it is not just the body, but it is the confidence and intelligence of the lady as well that makes them sexy. I think you look great in all your pics and of course certain angles do help, but there is nothing with that. Keep being yourself and use your sexy mind to find mutual friends that enjoy the same. Cheers!
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i like your pic a lot
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I quite love a confident woman. When at a swinger's club, I look at the various people there. They are of all shapes and sizes. I see how larger women rock their sexy dress and how they confidently carry themselves. I like that!
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Well, darling what can I say more then you sum it up just perfect!! Do you read my mind or??
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always interested in you
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Confidence is very sexy-attractive!
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Personally and Confidence are more important than body shape or size to me
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It is a combo of both for me! However, truth be told the confidence and the personality outweigh the physical. I have met some very sexy females in my 51 years, and that had nothing to do with their bodies. It is a woman's confidence and mind that brings it all together. I have been fortunate enough to meet a few women that would be considered BBWs, but they were some of the best fun I had and had wonderful minds. With all that being said, for me the biggest physical part is the face, eyes and beautiful, bright smiles! And you definitely have that my dear!
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Not sure you'd qualify as bbw, but most men I know, and me, prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones" so to speak. I am not terribly attracted to women who are uber skinny. Of course, personality is also key. Hot snotty people are no fun at all.
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I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.
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I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.
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To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion
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Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you.
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" A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"
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I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting. Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves. I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy. Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.
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I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you. SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference.
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It is insane!! I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.
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Everything comes back into style! Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.
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My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range. Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period. It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman! But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.
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be proud beautiful
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For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.
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yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman
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....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...
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I agree On a site like this we are drawn to personal appearance. I appreciate you commenting. Happy day to you
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Ahhh yes I have struggled with this issue too. I love all women shapes and sizes. Let me be the first of many to say women you are beautiful you are precious I love a great body I also love a confident woman. So a man that recognizes beauty knows that it's an entire package. Baby there are men on their knees waiting and wanting to admire and devour your sexy ass body a long line. Lol! I just know how I want you to feel Sexy just the way you are. Hugs and kisses!
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My goodness
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I just want to say I adore the new you. I love a body with curves and I love a woman is comfortable in her skin. I think we all have things we would change about ourselves , i think its normal but that doesnt mean we dont want to be who we are. I am a firm believer that "sexy" really doesnt start to come into play until at least age 35. Thats about the time we all really start to realize who we are and find comfort and confidence there. sexy is way more that body type. Sex was good in my 20s but id have to say it has been Soo much better the last 10-15 years because i know who i am now. it really does get better with age. and for the record, you're a delight.
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Beautiful, thank you for being among these blog pages. Hubba Hubba.
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Damn I want to know you!
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It doesn't matter what you want to tittle yourself, they are all Beautiful!
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Confidence 100%. Everybody is unique and beautiful.
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2/18/2020 12:24 pm |
Damn why arent you in Central TX?? Gorgeous.....
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2/19/2020 11:24 am |
Women verbally beating down women and body shaming their own? Hmmm, who would have thought it worked that way too.
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3/4/2020 11:57 am |
Personally, I find the level of confidence a women has in herself and her sexuality to be much more important than whether she would be considered conventionally attractive. A woman with quiet confidence in herself is such a turn-on for me, especially if she's not a 10 by society's standards (which I find insulting anyway- who is to say what is and isn't attractive?)
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There are women of all shapes and sizes who are beautiful. And there are women of all shapes and sizes who are "ugly". To me, beauty comes from confidence, kindness, the way you treat people, the passion that you have. It isn't the body type that makes someone beautiful or ugly, it's more attitude and action. You, my dear, are lovely, regardless of body type.
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Confidence makes all the difference
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5/18/2020 9:13 pm |
Love hard nipples to suckle and if agreeable to induce.
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excellent Girl + sexy
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I had not seen the second photo before, but you are 100% natural and BEAUTIFUL!!!
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